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Let Me Live My ’80s Fantasy!

I have a feeling that years seemed longer forty years ago.

5 min readSep 5, 2025

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At a farewell drinks party, a colleague said, “I never expected to stay with this company for twenty years.”

Everyone laughed, assuming it was a joke.

Later, he doubled down. “When I joined this company in the 2000s, my friends called it a bold move to leave a secure and well-paid job for a different role at a completely new company.”

Now it was time for “another bold move.”

He was not running from anything. He was running toward something.

“I have to experience more. I have to live my fantasy.”

As he said it, I heard Lorde’s Royals in my head and sang along, “let me live that fantasy.”

His enthusiasm was contagious.

I liked him all the more for his bravery.

What Are You Gonna Do With Your Life?

The next morning, my wife and I escaped to a small B&B near a forest to spend the weekend hiking with our dog.

We had never been there. New paths. New smells (for the dog especially). That clean feeling of being nowhere in particular. A change of scenery to recharge ourselves.

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Erik P.M. Vermeulen, PhD
Erik P.M. Vermeulen, PhD

Written by Erik P.M. Vermeulen, PhD

Stories about where our choices can take us and how to choose a better path.

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