One Life, More Futures, No Regrets

The benefits of getting older.

Erik P.M. Vermeulen, PhD
4 min readDec 1, 2023

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I woke up suddenly — slightly agitated and palms sweating — realizing I had forgotten my tie. The plane was about to land, it was late, and the shops would almost certainly be closed. I had to give my presentation early the following morning. And presenting without a tie? That was impossible.

Don’t ask me how I knew. I just did — call it foresight or intuition. But there was definitely no tie in my bag.

I felt hopeless and couldn’t believe how stupid I was. The way you feel when you lose something important or make a silly mistake. If only I could turn back time. And put things right — and pack the damn tie.

I had prepared for the presentation for weeks and knew making a good impression was crucial. My future depended on it, as a successful performance could lead to new opportunities to present my research.

Or so I imagined at the time.

The Hand of Fate

I heard someone calling my name when I got off the plane and was making my way to the luggage carousel, grumbling to myself about the tie situation.

“Hey, Erik!”

It was another conference participant.

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Erik P.M. Vermeulen, PhD
Erik P.M. Vermeulen, PhD

Written by Erik P.M. Vermeulen, PhD

Where Gen X memories meet today’s struggles.

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